Therapy for depression
Therapy for depression — online across India
Depression lies. It tells you this is just who you are now, that nothing helps, and that reaching out is more effort than it's worth. If you've made it to this page through all of that — that took something. Let's not waste it.
What it can feel like
Depression doesn't always look like sadness. It often looks like:
- Everything takes more energy than it should — replying to messages, bathing, deciding what to eat.
- Things you used to enjoy now feel flat, like someone turned the colour down.
- You're functioning at work and with family, then running on empty the moment you're alone.
- Sleep is broken — too little, too much, or never restful.
- A quiet, constant commentary of guilt: lazy, ungrateful, a burden.
- You can't remember the last time you felt genuinely okay, and it scares you a little.
A list like this can name an experience, but it can’t diagnose one — that takes a proper, unhurried assessment.
If any of this includes thoughts of not wanting to be here, please don't wait for an appointment — Tele-MANAS 14416 (24×7, free) · all helplines
How therapy helps
Depression is one of the most treatable conditions in mental health, and therapy is a first-line treatment — not a soft add-on. I use CBT to work with the thinking that depression distorts (“nothing will change”, “I’m the problem”), behavioural work to rebuild energy in small, achievable steps, and acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) to reconnect you with what actually matters to you — because depression tends to disconnect you from exactly that.
Where low mood has deeper roots — old family patterns, long-held beliefs about your worth — schema therapy gives us a way to work with the source, not just the symptoms. And if your depression is severe, I’ll be honest about whether a psychiatric consultation alongside therapy would serve you better; many people do best with both.
What working together looks like
We go at the pace your energy allows. Early sessions are less about “fixing” and more about understanding your particular depression and getting some breathing room — steadier days, small wins that count. The deeper work comes when you have the footing for it.
And if getting to a clinic feels impossible right now, that’s precisely what online sessions are for. Showing up in a t-shirt from your bed is an acceptable start. Showing up is the part that matters.
Further reading
General, institutional reading — none of it replaces an assessment: APA on psychotherapy (opens in a new tab) · NIMH on evidence-based therapies (opens in a new tab) · Tele-MANAS (Govt. of India) (opens in a new tab)
Common questions
Is this depression, or am I just being weak?
Do I need medication or therapy?
What if I can't put it into words?
Depression says don't bother. You're allowed to overrule it.
Booking a session takes two minutes and asks nothing of you except showing up once. The rest we figure out together.
